tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-60509074573927832902024-03-13T15:47:33.587-04:00WGLBWGLB is a multimedia news magazine. Here we discuss and promote all things GLBTQ, news, history, politics, culture, activism, family, health, entertainment, sports, religion, etc. Welcome and Join the conversation.* please sign our petitions!GLBT and Friendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04285724814260963428noreply@blogger.comBlogger3925125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050907457392783290.post-75859704009552924922011-10-25T02:38:00.000-04:002011-10-25T02:38:56.268-04:00STEVE HAYES: Tired Old Queen at the Movies<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/miPvgrtaHOs" width="640"></iframe><br />
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Julie Harris, Claire Bloom, Richard Johnson, Russ Tamblyn and a host of ghosts and goblins bring Halloween to Tired Old Queen at the Movies, with Robert Wise's classic THE HAUNTING (1963). Shot in black and white and based on a novel by horror master Shirley Jackson, this is probably the scariest haunted house movie ever made. Filled with superb performances, an eerie score, fabulous sets and shot in an atmosphere of absolute conviction, this film will not only make you believe in ghosts, but will have you jumping out of your skin at a knock on the door. Whatever you do, wherever you are, whoever they are, don't let them in! Happy Halloween!GLBT and Friendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04285724814260963428noreply@blogger.com25tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050907457392783290.post-34733586869501092472011-10-25T02:36:00.000-04:002011-10-25T02:36:30.498-04:00Report details inequities for kids of gay parents<div class="txt vcard author contributor" id="byline" itemscope="" itemtype="http://data-vocabulary.org/Person" rel="dc:creator"><h2 class="entry-summary" id="deck"><span style="font-size: small;">A growing number of American children are being raised without all the legal protections of traditional households </span></h2><span class="attribution" style="font-size: small;">By <span class="fn" itemprop="name" rel="author">DAVID CRARY -</span></span><br />
</div><div class="txt vcard author contributor" id="byline" itemscope="" itemtype="http://data-vocabulary.org/Person" rel="dc:creator"></div><div class="page i1 txt"><div class="i1"><span style="font-size: small;">According to her dads, life is good for Carrigan Starling-Littlefield, a spunky 5-year-old being raised by two gay men in South Carolina, which doesn't recognize their out-of-state marriage. </span></div><span style="font-size: small;">"We've found that being a family has created a lot of common ground with other families. We've not had many issues at all," said Tommy Starling, a partner in a food brokerage.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Yet he and his husband, Jeff Littlefield, who became parents through a California-based surrogacy program, remain wary as they contemplate Carrigan growing older and confronting challenges beyond their supportive community in Pawley's Island, S.C.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">"We're cautious about where we go, because we don't want our daughter to see any negativity," said Starling, 39. "We have some longer-term apprehensions that she'll face issues as she gets older, and we're trying to prepare her for that ... I feel she's the type of person who will stand up for her family."</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Carrigan is among a growing multitude of American children — possibly more than 1.2 million of them — being raised by gay and lesbian parents, often without all the legal protections afforded to mom-and-dad households.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Increasingly, the welfare of these children will be a core part of gay-rights strategies, as evidenced by a comprehensive report being released Tuesday. Compiled by an alliance of advocacy and child-welfare groups, it summarizes how laws and social stigma create distinctive challenges for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender families.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">"There are myriad ways that our families are discounted by government at all levels, and children are hurt the most," said Jennifer Chrisler of the Family Equality Council, one of the three groups authoring the report.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">The other groups are the liberal Center for American Progress and the Movement Advancement Project, a gay-rights think tank. Among other participants in the project were the National Association of Social Workers and the Child Welfare League of America.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">The U.S. census does not attempt to count the number of children being raised by gays and lesbians. Demographer Gary Gates of the UCLA School of Law's Williams Institute, who has been a consultant to the Census Bureau, estimates the number at 1.2 million, while the new report uses the figure of 2 million, including children with bisexual and transgender parents.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Whatever their numbers, the families are striking for their diversity — encompassing many low-income and minority households, and spread across about 96 percent of America's counties, according to data compiled by Gates and others.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Among the barriers and inequities they face, as detailed in the report:</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">—Many government safety net programs use definitions of family tied to marital status which may exclude same-sex partners.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">—Because of lack of legal recognition for their unions, gay and lesbian parents can face heavier tax burdens, higher costs for health insurance, and diminished financial protections in the event of death or disability.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">—When same-sex parents separate, one parent may lose custody or visitation rights, even in cases where he or she had been a child's primary caregiver.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Overshadowing all these problems is pervasive social stigma, according to the report.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">"Many of the challenges LGBT families face stem from a society that assumes that everyone is heterosexual and comes from a family with two married heterosexual parents," it says.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">For opponents of same-sex marriage, the issue of children can prompt nuanced responses.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">"Certainly children in any household arrangement need to be protected — need full support and love," said Mary Ellen Russell, executive director of the Catholic Conference of Maryland. But she said such protections should be provided without redefining the traditional concept of marriage as between a man and woman.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Many of the obstacles and inequities outlined in the new report would be addressed if same-sex marriage — now legal in six states and Washington, D.C. — were legalized nationwide and recognized by the federal government. However, the report includes numerous recommendations for less sweeping changes that would benefit children with gay parents, such as:</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">—Broadening the definition of "family" to allow LGBT families to benefit fully from government safety-net programs, and revise the tax code to provide equitable treatment for these families. At present, even legally married same-sex couples who can file joint state tax returns must file separate federal returns.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">—Enacting state-level parental recognition laws that would allow joint adoption by LGBT parents. Even with about 110,000 children in foster care who are eligible for adoption, some states and agencies refuse to place children with same-sex couples.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">—Ensuring that LGBT families have access to health insurance on equal terms with heterosexual families, and eliminate inequitable taxation of these benefits.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">—Ensuring that hospital visitation and medical decision-making policies are inclusive of LGBT families.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">—Expanding education and training about LGBT families for social workers, health care providers and other professionals.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Jeff Krehely, director of the Center for American Progress's LGBT research and communications project, said the report is part of an effort to counter arguments that same-sex marriage is a threat to children.</span></div><span style="font-size: small;">"People who oppose marriage equality have used and exploited children in a very scare-mongering way," said Krehely, who hopes the report will increase public understanding and empathy.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">The report, titled "All Children Matter: How Legal and Social Inequalities Hurt LGBT Families," is being presented Tuesday at event in Washington drawing some high-level government officials.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Bryan Samuels, commissioner of the federal Administration on Children, Youth and Families, is scheduled to be part of a panel discussion, and the opening speech will be given by Maryland Attorney General Douglas Gansler, a staunch gay-rights supporter in a state where lawmakers will be considering a bill to legalize same-sex marriage next year.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">"Same-sex marriage is a pro-family measure," Gansler said in a telephone interview.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Lisa Polyak, chair of the statewide gay-rights group Equality Maryland, says there will be a concerted effort during the legislative debate to highlight the challenges facing children of gays and lesbians.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">"If you care about children, you should care that the parents don't have the legal tools to take the best care of them," she said.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">Polyak and her partner of 30 years, Gita Deane, were married earlier this year in Washington. They have two daughters, Devi, 12, and Maya, 15, who testified before lawmakers last year in support of same-sex marriage in Maryland.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">"The root of my activism is denial of equal treatment of my children," said Polyak, citing instances where her daughters had been hurt by other people's comments.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">"One child told my daughter she was not allowed to come over to our house because we weren't really a family," Polyak said. "For them, it's a constant source of sadness and hurtfulness."</span>GLBT and Friendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04285724814260963428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050907457392783290.post-30809270758275393232011-09-24T20:50:00.000-04:002011-09-24T20:50:00.652-04:00STEVE HAYES: Tired Old Queen at the MoviesTHE HUNCHBACK OF NOTRE DAME (1939}<br />
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Charles Laughton gives the greatest performance of his career in William Dieterle's adaptation of Victor Hugo's THE HINCHBACK OF NOTRE DAME (1939). Along with able support from Maureen O'Hara, Sir Cedric Hardwicke, Edmund O'Brien, Harry Davenport, Thomas Mitchell and a cast of thousands, this is a spectacle of spectacles. A film of such rich scope, brilliant direction and bravura performances, you will be mesmerized, awed and overwhelmed by the beauty, pageantry and sensitivity of this unforgettable classic.<br />
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<div class="StoryBody" style="color: #333333; font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><div class="StoryImage" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(221, 221, 221); border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; display: inline; float: right; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 5px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 1px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"><img alt="JAMEY RODEMEYER 390x (GETTY) ADVOCATE.COM" id="ctl00_ContentWellTwo_lvComments_ctrl0_imgStory" src="http://www.advocate.com/uploadedImages/ADVOCATE/NEWS/2011/2011-09/2011-09-20/1Jamey.jpg" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(221, 221, 221); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-color: rgb(221, 221, 221); border-left-style: dotted; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-color: rgb(221, 221, 221); border-right-style: dotted; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-color: rgb(221, 221, 221); border-top-style: dotted; border-top-width: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; max-width: 690px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><span class="StoryCaption" style="color: #454545; display: inline; font: normal normal bold 11px/normal Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Jamey Rodemeyer</span><span class="ImageCredit" style="color: #454545; display: inline; font: normal normal normal 10px/normal Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 5px; padding-bottom: 5px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">The parents of a high school freshman in Amherst, N.Y. who killed himself told CNN that their son had endured pervasive antigay bullying beginning in fifth grade, both at school and particularly online. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Jamey Rodemeyer, 14,<a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/city/schools/article563538.ece" style="color: #454545; font: normal normal bold 12px/normal Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; text-transform: none;" title="committed suicide">committed suicide</a>Monday in the Buffalo, N.Y. suburb. “He had the biggest heart in that little body,” Rodemeyer’s mother, Tracey, told CNN's Anderson Cooper Wednesday. “He was either loved so sincerely or he was bullied. There wasn’t much in between.”</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 5px; padding-bottom: 5px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Much of the bullying Jamey faced, Tracey Rodemeyer said, occurred not in school but via Facebook and other social media sites. "Because people can access each other in numbers so readily — it’s still accessible for people to do their bullying.”<br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />“We need to get a better a system in our school district, in our school systems, to get rid of these bullies. Because it’s a rampant problem,” Rodemeyer’s father, Tim, said. (Watch the CNN video below.) <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Rodemeyer’s death came just two days before a second-annual conference on bullying hosted by the Department of Education in Washington, D.C., one attended by educators and LGBT anti-bullying advocates such as Tammy Aaberg, who lost her son, Justin, to suicide in 2010. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Aaberg was among a group of advocates who <a href="http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2011/09/16/Anti_LGBT_Bullying_Advocates_Meet_with_Bachmanns_Office/" style="color: #454545; font: normal normal bold 12px/normal Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; text-transform: none;" title="met">met</a> last week with Minnesota representative Michele Bachmann’s district office and urged the congresswoman to come out against the multiple youth suicides in her own district. Bachmann said last week on the presidential campaign trail that school bullying "is not a federal issue." <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />“I think Congresswoman Bachmann is in a leadership role to speak out against bullying," Aaberg<em style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"> The Advocate</em> last week. “I’m not asking her to change her beliefs. But all kids should be protected in school.”<br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Rodemeyer, a devout Lady Gaga fan who found inspiration and strength in the pop star's music, said in an <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=-Pb1CaGMdWk" style="color: #454545; font: normal normal bold 12px/normal Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; text-transform: none;" title="“It Gets Better” video">“It Gets Better” video</a> that he faced bullying at every turn. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />"No one in my school cares about preventing suicide, while you're the ones calling me 'faggot' and tearing me down,” Rodemeyer later wrote online to those who harassed him prior to his death. <br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />In a message to her 13.7 million Twitter followers, Lady Gaga tweeted Wednesday, “I am meeting with our President. I will not stop fighting. This must end. Our generation has the power to end it.”<br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />“Trend it,” she wrote, adding the hashtag <a href="http://trendistic.indextank.com/makealawforjamey/_on-2011-09-21-22h-utc" style="color: #454545; font: normal normal bold 12px/normal Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; text-transform: none;" title="#MakeALawforJamey">#MakeALawforJamey</a>.<br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" /><br style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" />Legislation to expressly prohibit discrimination in schools on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity has been in the works for some time — a House version of the Student Nondiscrimination Act was reintroduced earlier this year by Rep. Jared Polis of Colorado, with the Senate companion bill introduced by Senator Al Franken of Minnesota.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 5px; padding-bottom: 5px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">“[W]hat I want is for schools to have a policy against bullying—and that parents would have a right of action, kids would have a right of action against the school district,” Franken <a href="http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2011/07/13/15_Minutes_of_Franken/" style="color: #454545; font: normal normal bold 12px/normal Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-decoration: none; text-transform: none;" title="told">told</a> <em style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">The Advocate</em> in July. “Once you give a right of action, schools know they had better comply. So then they make a policy."</span></div><div><br />
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</span></div><div class="p3"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">VATICAN CITY – A campaign to hold the pope responsible for "crimes against humanity" is not a publicity stunt, sex abuse victims say, even as experts doubt it will have much success at the <a href="http://content.usatoday.com/topics/topic/International+Criminal+Court"><span class="s2">International Criminal Court</span></a>.</span></div><div class="p2"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">In a dramatic and unprecedented move, abuse victims filed a complaint that seeks to hold <span class="s3"><a href="http://content.usatoday.com/topics/topic/Religion+and+beliefs/Leaders,+Experts/Pope+Benedict+XVI">Pope Benedict XVI</a> </span>and others responsible for the "systematic and widespread concealing of rape and child sex crimes throughout the world."</span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Lawyers representing the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests (SNAP) filed the 84-page complaint at the ICC in The Hague, the Netherlands, on Tuesday.</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">The filing calls for the investigation and prosecution of the pope and three other top Vatican officials: former Vatican Secretary of State Cardinal Angelo Sodano; current Secretary of State Cardinal Tarcisio Bertone; and Cardinal William Levada, a former archbishop of<a href="http://content.usatoday.com/topics/topic/Places,+Geography/Towns,+Cities,+Counties/San+Francisco"><span class="s3">San Francisco</span></a> who now has jurisdiction over abuse cases as head of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith.</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">The four men are "responsible for rape and other sexual violence and for the physical and psychological torture of victims around the world both through command responsibility and direct cover up of crimes," said Pam Spees, a lawyer with the New York-based Center for Constitutional Rights, which filed the complaint on SNAP's behalf.</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Vatican spokesman Rev. <a href="http://content.usatoday.com/topics/topic/Federico+Lombardi"><span class="s3">Federico Lombardi</span></a> declined requests for comment. But Cardinal Crescenzio Sepe of Naples, former head of the Vatican's missionary office, told the Vatican Insider website that the filing was "the usual anti-Catholic attempt that tends in some way to obscure" the image of the church.</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Tuesday's filing cites five cases of sex abuse which occurred in the U.S. and the<a href="http://content.usatoday.com/topics/topic/Democratic+Republic+of+the+Congo"><span class="s3">Democratic Republic of the Congo</span></a>. The latter country, unlike the U.S. and the Vatican, is a party to the Rome Statute, which governs the ICC.</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Vatican lawyers have argued that local bishops do not act as agents of the pope, noting that they do not receive their salaries from Rome nor work on Vatican property, and that the pope is therefore not responsible for their mishandling of sex abuse cases.</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Various attempts to hold the Vatican responsible through the U.S. court system have repeatedly failed, usually because the pope, as the head of a sovereign state, is immune from prosecution.</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">On Tuesday, a leading authority on international law characterized the SNAP filing as an effort to attract publicity for the group's cause, which would not receive serious consideration from the ICC.</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">"There will be no follow-up," said Giorgio Sacerdoti, who teaches at Milan's Bocconi University. "It will be set aside."</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Among the reasons the court is likely to view the sex abuses cases as beyond its jurisdiction, Sacerdoti said, is that they were not part of a "systematic" attack on human rights.</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">SNAP President Barbara Blaine denied that the complaint is a publicity stunt.</span></span></div><div class="p4"><span class="s1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">"We have submitted 20,000 pages of evidence that fully document all the crimes in a way that meets the criteria of the ICC," Blaine said. "Our attorneys have done due diligence."</span></span></div>GLBT and Friendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04285724814260963428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050907457392783290.post-18870789582564929562011-09-11T08:00:00.005-04:002011-09-14T10:57:20.084-04:00Remembering Mark Bingham, American Hero.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFQ5A-STbadKquLhZeZf3sPg15_cxqlmXXQNy0RJnmsZSktxRbosGINAnX52xeX4Et4rLVnOuJQdhGQKr9HjE6TG2yQL1es5ry8Aizq3Kp1E5wilfRWu0hizy2kaBOk7vGn3yuPvtJP3c/s1600/Mark_Bingham1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFQ5A-STbadKquLhZeZf3sPg15_cxqlmXXQNy0RJnmsZSktxRbosGINAnX52xeX4Et4rLVnOuJQdhGQKr9HjE6TG2yQL1es5ry8Aizq3Kp1E5wilfRWu0hizy2kaBOk7vGn3yuPvtJP3c/s1600/Mark_Bingham1.jpg" /></a></div><b>Mark Kendall Bingham</b> (May 22, 1970 – September 11, 2001) was an <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States" title="United States">American</a> <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Public_relations" title="Public relations">public relations</a> executive who founded his own company, the Bingham Group. He died at age 31 in the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/September_11_attacks" title="September 11 attacks">September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks</a> on board <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Airlines_Flight_93" title="United Airlines Flight 93">United Airlines Flight 93</a>.<br />
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<h2><span class="mw-headline" id="Education">Education</span></h2>Bingham attended <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Los_Gatos_High_School" title="Los Gatos High School">Los Gatos High School</a>. He was a graduate of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/University_of_California,_Berkeley" title="University of California, Berkeley">University of California, Berkeley</a>, where he was also president of his <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternities_and_sororities" title="Fraternities and sororities">fraternity</a>, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chi_Psi" title="Chi Psi">Chi Psi</a>. In college, he played for the UC Berkeley <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rugby_union" title="Rugby union">rugby union</a> team and helped them win a string of national championships.<br />
<h2><span class="editsection"></span><span class="mw-headline" id="Rugby_and_business_career">Rugby and business career</span></h2><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimKcPN-nNv797zvpC5YPP5WP4Z3c4VQWAU3kKvSN9emPMxTSyLsfWxm0iiHAmN6DRNRWnrqNOWudMAHyogm-evdQPFB1hAl3CHG-mR6lZOtpFHdOdr_fa4hoHRjUORqJfrpnp14S_95ro/s1600/mark_steelers_1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimKcPN-nNv797zvpC5YPP5WP4Z3c4VQWAU3kKvSN9emPMxTSyLsfWxm0iiHAmN6DRNRWnrqNOWudMAHyogm-evdQPFB1hAl3CHG-mR6lZOtpFHdOdr_fa4hoHRjUORqJfrpnp14S_95ro/s320/mark_steelers_1.jpg" width="320" /></a>A large athlete at 6 feet 4 inches (1.93 m) and 225 pounds (102 kg), he also played for the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/San_Francisco_Fog_RFC" title="San Francisco Fog RFC">San Francisco Fog RFC</a>, a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rugby_union" title="Rugby union">rugby union</a> team. In 2001 most of the Fog were complete novices to the game, but Mark started showing up anyway. He coached, cajoled, and crashed through their practices, and played No. 8 in their first two friendly matches. He also played in their first tournament (where he promptly dislocated his shoulder). He taught his teammates his favorite <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rugby_football" title="Rugby football">rugby</a> songs and made them feel like we were part of something bigger than themselves.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-binghamcup.com_0-0"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Bingham#cite_note-binghamcup.com-0"></a></sup><br />
In May 2001, as a member of the Fog, he took part in the Washington <a class="new" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=DC_Renegades&action=edit&redlink=1" title="DC Renegades (page does not exist)">DC Renegades</a> Invitational Tournament. Although very few in number, most of the rugby teams extant at that time took part in the tournament. It was after the tournament that Gotham’s <a class="new" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Scott_Glaessgen&action=edit&redlink=1" title="Scott Glaessgen (page does not exist)">Scott Glaessgen</a>, who had been inspired by the tournament and who had been friends with Mark since 1998, contacted Bingham about forming a rugby team in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_City" title="New York City">New York City</a>.<br />
Mark had recently opened a second office of his successful public relations firm in NYC and was spending more time on the East Coast. Mark was excited about the possibility and over the summer the two men started planning the formation of a New York City team the <a class="mw-redirect" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gotham_Knights_RFC" title="Gotham Knights RFC">Gotham Knights RFC</a>.<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-1"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Bingham#cite_note-1"></a></sup> On September 11, 2001 he boarded Flight 93 at the last minute, on his way to California to be an usher in his fraternity brother <a class="new" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Joseph_Salama&action=edit&redlink=1" title="Joseph Salama (page does not exist)">Joseph Salama</a>'s wedding.<br />
<h2><span class="editsection"></span><span class="mw-headline" id="Death">Death</span></h2>Bingham was among the passengers who attempted to storm the cockpit of Flight 93 to try to prevent members of <a class="mw-redirect" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Al_Qaeda" title="Al Qaeda">Al Qaeda</a>, a terrorist organization, from using the plane to kill hundreds or thousands of additional victims as a part of the <a class="mw-redirect" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/9/11" title="9/11">9/11</a> attacks on the United States. He made a brief airphone call to his mother, Alice Hoagland (formerly spelled "Hoglan"), shortly before the plane went down. Hoagland, a former flight attendant with <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Airlines" title="United Airlines">United Airlines</a>, later left a voice mail message on his cell phone, instructing Bingham to reclaim the aircraft after it became apparent that Flight 93 was to be used in a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_mission" title="Suicide mission">suicide mission</a>.<br />
Bingham was survived by his boyfriend of six years, Paul Holm, who said this was not the first time Bingham had risked his life to protect the lives of others. He had twice successfully protected Holm from attempted muggings, one at gunpoint. Holm describes Bingham as a brave, competitive man, saying, "He hated to lose — at anything." He was even known to proudly display a scar he received after being gored at <a class="mw-redirect" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_running_of_the_bulls" title="The running of the bulls">the running of the bulls</a> in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pamplona" title="Pamplona">Pamplona</a>.<br />
Quote by Mark Bingham: “We have the chance to be role models for other gay folks who wanted to play sports, but never felt good enough or strong enough.<br />
"This is a great opportunity to change a lot of people’s minds, and to reach a group that might never have had to know or hear about gay people. Let’s go make some new friends … and win a few games.”<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-binghamcup.com_0-1"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Bingham#cite_note-binghamcup.com-0"></a></sup><br />
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<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtube_gdata_player&v=BuvBTfN9C0c#">10:03</a> on a Tuesday morning<br />
in the fall of an American dream<br />
a man is doing what he knows is right<br />
on flight 93<br />
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Loved his mom and he loved his dad<br />
loved his home and he loved his man<br />
but on that bloody Tuesday morning<br />
he died an American<br />
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Now you cannot change this<br />
You can't erase this<br />
You can't pretend this is not the truth<br />
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Even though he could not marry<br />
Or teach your children in our schools<br />
Because who he wants to love<br />
Is breaking your God's rules<br />
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He stood up on a Tuesday Morning<br />
In the terror he was brave<br />
And he made his choice and without a doubt<br />
A hundred lives he must have saved<br />
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And the things you might take for granted<br />
Your inalienable rights<br />
Some might choose to deny him<br />
Even though he gave his life<br />
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Can you live with yourself in the land of the free<br />
And make him less of a hero than the other three<br />
Well it might begin to change ya<br />
In a field in Pennsylvania<br />
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Stand up America<br />
Hear the bell now as it tolls<br />
Wake up America<br />
It's Tuesday Morning<br />
Let's roll<br />
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<h5><span style="font-size: small;">BY PAUL SCHINDLER -</span></h5>In a significant reprieve for the same-sex partners of American citizens facing the threat of deportation, the Obama administration on August 18 announced that such actions would no longer be pursued against foreign nationals unless they are identified as security threats, convicted criminals, or repeat immigration law violators.<br />
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The policy was rolled out <a href="http://www.scribd.com/doc/62601438/Napolitano-Letter">in a letter from Homeland Security Secretary Janet Napolitano</a> to Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid.<br />
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In a telephone conference call with reporters, a senior administration official explained that the focus on those “high-priority” categories represents the latest in the government’s efforts to un-“clog” a deportation system that currently has 300,000 cases pending.<br />
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The Obama administration has already made a significant dent in shifting deportations toward priority cases, the official said. In fiscal year 2010, more than half of those deported were security risks or criminal convicts –– up from just 30 percent before the president took office –– and two-thirds of the remainder were repeat immigration law offenders, including deported individuals who had reentered the country.<br />
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The new policy was announced in response to a letter sent to President Barack Obama from 22 senators earlier this year asking that the Department of Homeland Security (DHS) categorically stop deportation proceedings against young people who would have been covered had the Dream Act been approved by Congress. That bill aims to offer permanent residency to college students and military service personnel who are undocumented immigrants that arrived in the US as minors.<br />
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Like same-sex partners and other law-abiding undocumented immigrants, these young people should now largely be in the clear.<br />
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According to the administration official, cases currently in the system will be reviewed to see whether they represent “high priority” situations where DHS sees a pressing need to move toward deportation. If not, any pending procedures will be “stayed.”<br />
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“They will not be taken out of the system,” the official said, “but those cases will be set aside.”<br />
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As part of evaluating cases, some will be identified as “very low priority” –– those involving law-abiding immigrants with strong community or family ties. The administration official emphasized that LGBT families are considered “families” for purposes of such evaluation.<br />
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In the past, the government, relying on the Defense of Marriage Act, has refused to recognize the legal marriages of same-sex binational couples.<br />
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Immigration enforcement officials, however, have always had “prosecutorial discretion” in handling specific cases. On June 9, Jane Minichiello, chief counsel in the Newark Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) office, exercising such discretion, recommended closing deportation proceedings against <a href="http://www.gaycitynews.com/articles/2011/07/21/gay_city_news/news/doc4e28cb20718d2766983591.txt">Henry Velandia</a>, a Venezuelan immigrant who lives in Princeton with his American husband.<br />
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On June 17, ICE’s director, John Morton, circulated a memo to agency offices nationwide urging that such discretion be applied to weed out cases that did not merit agency enforcement focus.<br />
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In her letter to Reid, which was the administration's response to the earlier Dream Act letter to the president, Napolitano stated that the principles Morton spelled out in June would now become uniform policy across ICE offices nationwide.<br />
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The administration official who spoke to reporters stated that those undocumented workers identified as low enforcement priorities would be eligible for employment authorization on a case-by-case basis. Five weeks after having his deportation case closed, Velandia, who is a dancer and dance instructor, received such authorization, for a one-year period.<br />
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Immigration rights advocates were heartened by the news. In a press call following the administration briefing, officials from Immigration Equality, which advocates on behalf of binational same-sex couples, the Legal Action Center, and the Immigration Policy Center welcomed the news, particularly the administration’s explicit acknowledgement of LGBT families as qualifying when immigration officials evaluate family ties.<br />
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Victoria Neilson, Immigration Equality’s legal director, noted that there are an estimated 36,000 binational same-sex couples in the US –– nearly all of them potentially at risk prior to the new DHS announcement. Still, that number represents just a fraction of the 300,000 deportation cases and of the estimated ten to eleven million undocumented immigrants in the US.<br />
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Lavi Soloway, who founded Immigration Equality but is now in private practice and represents Velandia, said, “Everyone who works in this system wants uniformity.”<br />
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He explained, “Rather than allowing each ICE deportation office to assess whether a particular person warrants having their case closed, decisions will now be made at the top, with the full force of the administration behind them. It is as close as you could get to a uniform policy. It takes us one step closer to assuring us that all deportations will stop.”<br />
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Soloway is due in Immigration Court in Denver on August 19 on behalf of Sujey Pando, who came to the US at 16, after being thrown out of her home in Mexico, where she suffered physical and sexual abuse from an uncle. She lived in the US with her mother and American stepfather, until they threw her out when they learned she is a lesbian.<br />
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Living on her own, she came to the attention of immigration officials when she was stopped for a routine traffic violation in 2008. Despite the fact that she and her wife, Violeta, married in Iowa last November, Pando now faces her final deportation hearing.<br />
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Soloway is currently reaching out to government attorneys to see whether they are willing to close the case based on the new DHS policy or at least postpone the final hearing until Pando’s file can be reviewed in line with the new uniform guidelines.<br />
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“I would think they would welcome the fact that the responsibility for a decision is coming from the highest levels of the administration,” he said.<br />
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Pando’s is one of five cases Soloway’s<a href="http://www.stopthedeportations.com/"> Stop the Deportations Project </a>is due in court about in the next several weeks.<br />
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“We will bring the Napolitano letter into court on each of them,” he said.<br />
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Emotions run riot as Eleanor Parker and a superb cast of actresses fight for their rights and freedom in John Cromwell's tale of women behind bars, CAGED (1950). Parker, earning the first of three Oscar nominations, plays Mary, a pregnant girl of nineteen, tried, convicted and "sent up the river" for one to five years on a first offense. Despite the kindness and guidance of Agnes Moorehead as the kindly warden, Parker learns how to survive in a cage filled with ruthless women who'll stop at nothing and have nothing to lose. She's joined by talented array of some of the best character actresses in the business, including; Jan Sterling, Betty Garde, Ellen Corby, Lee Patrick, and fellow Oscar nominee Hope Emerson as Harper, the unforgettably evil and gargantuan prison matron. It's a riveting drama, filled with superb performances, raw emotions and heartbreaking moments that will stay with you long after "lights out."<br />
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<div class="figureleft" style="background-color: #f2f2f2; border-bottom-color: rgb(216, 217, 218); border-bottom-left-radius: 6px 6px; border-bottom-right-radius: 6px 6px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-color: initial; border-color: initial; border-left-color: rgb(216, 217, 218); border-left-style: solid; border-left-width: 1px; border-right-color: rgb(216, 217, 218); border-right-style: solid; border-right-width: 1px; border-top-color: rgb(216, 217, 218); border-top-left-radius: 6px 6px; border-top-right-radius: 6px 6px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-width: 1px; float: left; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-right: 10px; padding-bottom: 10px; padding-left: 10px; padding-right: 10px; padding-top: 10px; text-align: center; width: 250px;"><img alt="Rudolph Brazda" src="http://www.edgeboston.com/display/viewimage_story.php?id=123014&maxwidth=230" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px;" /><figcaption><div class="caption" style="color: black; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt; line-height: 11px; margin-bottom: 3px; text-align: left;"><small>Rudolph Brazda (Source:Ronny Hartmann, File /AP Photo)</small></div></figcaption></div><div class="bodytext" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 8pt;"><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">The terrors of the Holocaust wiped out six million Jews. What is less known is that a number of other groups were also targeted for forced labor and extermination by the Nazis, with gays being among them.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">It’s estimated that around 100,000 gay men were arrested during the Nazi regime. Of those, about half were incarcerated, and as many as 15,000 were sent to concentration camps under the Nazis, a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Persecution_of_homosexuals_in_Nazi_Germany_and_the_Holocaust" style="color: #8b2705; text-decoration: none;" target="new">Wikipedia article</a> says.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">"It is unclear how many... eventually perished in the camps, but leading scholar Ruediger Lautman believes that the death rate of homosexuals in concentration camps may have been as high as 60%," the Wikipedia article notes. "Homosexuals in the camps were treated in an unusually cruel manner by their captors."</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">The Nazis forced gay concentration camp prisoners to wear pink triangles as a means of identification; GLBT equality groups later embraced the pink triangle which now stands as a symbol of the civil rights struggle for equality before the law.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">But when the Allies liberated the concentration camps, gays were not set free; rather, they were turned over to the civil authorities. All too often, they were locked up once again.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">The issue of gays having been persecuted, arrested, incarcerated, and murdered under the Nazi machine was left unaddressed for decades. In 1979, playwright Martin Sherman used the topic as the basis for his play "Bent," a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bent_(play)" style="color: #8b2705; text-decoration: none;" target="new">separate Wikipedia article</a> says. "When the play was first performed, there was only a small trickle of historical research or even awareness about the Nazi persecution of homosexuals. In some regards, the play helped increase that historical research and education in the 1980s and 1990s," the article adds.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">In 2002, the German government finally issued an apology to the gay community.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">One of the gays sent to the camps under the Nazis was Rudolph Brazda, who spent three years at Buchenwald. Brazda was thought to be the last surviving gay man to have been sent to the camps for his sexuality upon his recent death, the <a href="http://www.haaretz.com/jewish-world/last-homosexual-holocaust-survivor-dies-at-98-1.376975" style="color: #8b2705; text-decoration: none;" target="new">Associated Press reported</a> in an Aug. 4 article. He was 98 years old.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">The AP story drew on a statement made German group the Lesbian and Gay Association (LSVD), which reported that Brazda died on Aug. 3. The report "didn’t give details of the location or cause of death," the AP article said.</div></div><br />
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<div class="bodytext" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 8pt;"><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">The AP reported that Brazda spent the years 1942 - 1945 at Buchenwald. He was sent to the camp after "repeatedly [running] into trouble with Nazi authorities over his homosexuality," the article said.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">"When a memorial to the Nazis’ gay victims was unveiled in Berlin in 2008, the LSVD said the last ex-prisoner that it knew of had died three years earlier," the AP article recounted. "But the group said it was then contacted by Brazda, who visited the memorial at its invitation and became an honorary member."</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">The openly gay mayor of Berlin, Klaus Wowereit, lauded Brazda. The two men had met in 2008, the AP reported.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">"He is an example of how important the work of remembrance is for our future," Wowereit told the media.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">"Fewer and fewer people can give information about repression under the Nazi dictatorship authentically and from their own experience."</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">"Nazi Germany declared homosexuality an aberration that threatened the German race," the AP reported.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">Similar rhetoric has been used against gays in the United States, and recently anti-gay screeds that claim gays will cause the destruction of all humanity unless stopped have been at the heart of a campaign <a href="http://www.edgeboston.com/news/international/news//122978/fearful_silence_shrouds_ghana%E2%80%99s_gay_crackdown" style="color: #8b2705; text-decoration: none;">in the African nation Ghana</a>, where a regional minister has launched an effort to round up and "get rid of" gays.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">The anti-gay crackdown started last month when a regional minister, Paul Evan Aidoo, responded to lobbying from Christian and Muslim groups with a directive that gays be placed under arrest. Aidoo tasked Ghanaian security agencies with finding and detaining gays, and also called for heterosexuals, such as landlords, to turn in people they suspect might be gay.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;">Aidoo has described the effort to round up and arrest gays as an initiative to "get rid of" all homosexuals.</div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 9pt;"></div></div><div class="credentials" style="border-top-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-top-style: dotted; border-top-width: 1px; clear: both; color: #777777; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 8pt; margin-top: 10px; padding-top: 10px;">Kilian Melloy is EDGE Media Network’s Web Producer and Assistant Arts Editor. He also reviews media, conducts interviews, and writes aggregate news stories and commentary for EDGE.</div>GLBT and Friendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04285724814260963428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050907457392783290.post-72000190525992043882011-08-05T09:28:00.000-04:002011-08-05T09:28:14.633-04:00Pinksixty News FRIDAY 05 AUGUST 2011<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/xE3TWTC90zU" width="640"></iframe><br />
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A Californian federal judge has struck down the state's ban on same-sex marriage, ruling that Proposition 8 violates the U.S. Constitution. The decision is a major step forward in the fight for equality for gay Americans.<br />
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A lesbian couple in Norway have been commended for saving the lives of 40 youngsters during the recent massacre. They ferried injured teens off the island in their small boat whilst under fire from the killer, who shot at their boat during the rescues.<br />
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A runaway Turkish soldier has been arrested in Istanbul for murdering a transsexual sex worker. The victim, known as Didem, was killed by the 26 year old man after he discovered she was a trans woman.<br />
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The launch of Ben Cohen's Stand Up Foundation website was halted by the huge demand yesterday. Ben's promised that the site will be up and running soon, and all tee-shirt orders made this week will receive a free anti-bullying wristband. You can place your order at www.ben-cohen.com<br />
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And finally, Dolly Parton has issued a personal apology to the lesbian couple who were told to invert their gay marriage tee-shirt before being allowed into Dollywood. She reaffirmed her commitment to the queer community and said she is looking into the incident personally.GLBT and Friendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04285724814260963428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050907457392783290.post-6928608490466469082011-08-04T19:26:00.000-04:002011-08-04T19:26:37.064-04:00Lambda Legal eNews: NY's First Vows | Attack at Sizzler | Supreme Court Petition<table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" style="width: 649px;"><tbody>
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<div class="inside-copy">The policymaking body of the American Psychological Association (APA) unanimously approved the resolution 157-0 on the eve of the group's annual convention, which opens here today.</div><div class="inside-copy">The group, with more than 154,000 members, has long supported full equal rights for gays, based on social science research on sexual orientation. Now the nation's psychologists — citing an increasing body of research about same-sex marriage, as well as increased discussion at the state and federal levels — took the support to a new level.</div><div class="inside-copy">"Now as the country has really begun to have experience with gay marriage, our position is much clearer and more straightforward — that marriage equity is the policy that the country should be moving toward," says Clinton Anderson, director of APA's Office on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Concerns.</div><div class="inside-copy">The resolution points to numerous recent studies, including findings that "many gay men and lesbians, like their heterosexual counterparts, desire to form stable, long-lasting and committed intimate relationships and are successful in doing so." </div><div class="inside-copy">It adds that "emerging evidence suggests that statewide campaigns to deny same-sex couples legal access to civil marriage are a significant source of stress to the lesbian, gay and bisexual residents of those states and may have negative effects on their psychological well-being."</div><div class="inside-copy">Six states (Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, <a href="http://content.usatoday.com/topics/topic/Places,+Geography/States,+Territories,+Provinces,+Islands/U.S.+States/New+Hampshire" title="More news, photos about New Hampshire">New Hampshire</a>, <a href="http://content.usatoday.com/topics/topic/Places,+Geography/States,+Territories,+Provinces,+Islands/U.S.+States/New+York" title="More news, photos about New York">New York</a> and Vermont) and the <a href="http://content.usatoday.com/topics/topic/Places,+Geography/States,+Territories,+Provinces,+Islands/U.S.+States/District+of+Columbia" title="More news, photos about District of Columbia">District of Columbia</a> allow same-sex marriage.</div><div class="inside-copy">"Psychologists have been very important in helping to keep the discussion at a fact-based level and not let it steer off into stereotypes," says M.V. Lee Badgett, research director at the non-profit Williams Institute on Sexual Orientation Law & Public Policy at the University of California-Los Angeles.</div><div class="inside-copy">Sociologist W. Bradford Wilcox, director of the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia-Charlottesville, says his board is divided on the issue and hasn't taken a stance on same-sex marriage. He says the APA resolution will likely have a broad impact.</div><div class="inside-copy">"I don't think it's very significant for the population at large, but I do think this move is significant for the ongoing public policy and legal battles in Washington and around the states," he says.</div><div class="inside-copy">Clinical psychologist Mark Hatzenbuehler, a Robert Wood Johnson Foundation Health & Society Scholar at Columbia University in New York City, whose new research is cited in the resolution, says the courts tend to look at these kinds of policy statements because "they're really looking to see what social science research says about the influence on gay marriage and marriage bans on a whole host of outcomes."</div><div class="inside-copy"> Badgett's research of gay marriage across cultures is also cited in the resolution. She says the Netherlands was the first to allow gay couples to marry, and it showed "very little change in the overall society, but it was very important to gay couples themselves."</div><div class="inside-copy">The last APA resolution on sexual orientation and marriage was approved in 2004. The resolution notes that since that time, APA has worked on 11 amicus briefs filed in same-sex marriage cases since 2004. </div>GLBT and Friendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04285724814260963428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050907457392783290.post-27978697858677970502011-08-03T15:24:00.000-04:002011-08-03T15:24:22.744-04:00Cuddle Therapy - Gay To Straight Scam<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">Social conservatives are promoting so-called cuddle conversion camps where cuddle therapy is supposed to turn gay people straight. Cenk Uygur and Ana Kasparian discuss.</span><br />
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<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/8DvycRIJS4c" width="640"></iframe>GLBT and Friendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04285724814260963428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050907457392783290.post-78485050198842444152011-08-03T12:41:00.000-04:002011-08-03T12:41:37.002-04:00Church child protection chief caught with 4,000 child porn pictures<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px;"></span><br />
<div class="article-image fl-left" style="background-color: #fcd8d8; background-image: url(http://images.mirror.co.uk/collections/m4_art2/imagegallery-bg.jpg); background-position: 0px 0px; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; clear: both; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><div class="caption" style="background-color: white; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: black; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: bold; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: center; vertical-align: baseline;"><img alt="Christopher Jarvis (pic: Apex)" border="0" height="396" src="http://images.mirror.co.uk/upl/m4/jul2011/2/1/image-40-for-editorial-pics-31-july-2011-gallery-510604009.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; display: block; float: left; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="610" />Christopher Jarvis leaves court</div></div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">A child protection official for the Catholic Church has been caught with 4,000 pictures of child porn.</div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Father-of-four Christopher Jarvis was arrested after uploading pictures of children being abused to a website.</div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Married Jarvis, 49, a former social worker, was employed by the church following sex scandals about pervert priests.</div><br />
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<div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">His job was to monitor church groups to ensure paedophiles did not gain access to children in the church’s congregations.</div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">But he was caught by police in March with more than 4,000 child porn images on his home computer and his work laptop.</div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">He admitted 12 counts of making, possessing and distributing indecent images when he appeared before magistrates in Plymouth and is likely to face jail when he returns to court for sentencing next month.</div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Jarvis, who has been sacked from his job as child safeguarding officer, worked the Diocese of Plymouth for nine years.</div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Church spokesman David Pond said: “Mr Jarvis was suspended from his position as soon as the diocese became aware in March of the police investigation.</div><div style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-size: 12px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">“The Bishop took that action and since then the Church has worked closely with the police.</div>GLBT and Friendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04285724814260963428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050907457392783290.post-16165570672609373892011-08-03T09:32:00.000-04:002011-08-03T09:32:54.810-04:00Lesbian couple saved 40 teenagers in Norway massacre<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7hng1CvPzl6ZfsnmkwOkzabdqk7edIFeI5eBcYZR6tSNqj5kgjfTSXnckrw63vBw0K5BzH1TveNe4jxyidkEEcUWY1TzURd6E1EMI6U4xbDyKokH1fOZvhq4tA2XbHu7uMmu2tff87_7d/s1600/dalenhagen.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7hng1CvPzl6ZfsnmkwOkzabdqk7edIFeI5eBcYZR6tSNqj5kgjfTSXnckrw63vBw0K5BzH1TveNe4jxyidkEEcUWY1TzURd6E1EMI6U4xbDyKokH1fOZvhq4tA2XbHu7uMmu2tff87_7d/s1600/dalenhagen.jpg" /></a></div><b>By Jessica Geen -</b><br />
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A married lesbian couple have been commended for saving the lives of 40 teenagers in Norway’s massacre two weeks ago.<br />
Toril Hansen and Hege Dalen were having dinner on the shore opposite the island of Utoya when they heard shots ring out and screaming.<br />
They saw young people running into Lake Tyrifjorden as Anders Behring Breivik opened fire on the Norwegian Labour Party camp.<br />
In a stunning act of bravery, the couple got in their boat and started towards the island. <br />
Hansen and Dalen made four runs across the lake, each time picking up injured, frightened and dazed youngsters while Breivik shot at – and hit – the sides of the boat.<br />
Dalen told Finnish newspaper Helsingin Sanomat: “We were eating. Then shooting and then the awful screaming. We saw how the young people ran in panic into the lake.”<br />
While other acts of heroism have emerged from the massacre, Hansen and Dalen’s actions have been largely unreported until now.<br />
The LGBT blogTalk About Equality asked: “If a married lesbian couple saves 40 teens from the Norway massacre and no-one writes about it, did it really happen? … The heavy hitters who usually kill for hero stories like this have remained silent.”<br />
Tom Chivers, of the Daily Telegraph, wrote: “Have the media ignored a gold-plated tale of bravery and heroism just because they don’t like the sexual orientation of the protagonists? I don’t know, obviously.<br />
“But it’s not as though it’s just traditionally minded, conservative news organisations, who might be expected to have misgivings about homosexual marriage, which have not reported on Mrs Hansen and Mrs Dalen’s heroism.”<br />
Breivik has admitted to killing 77 people on the island and in Oslo on July 22nd.<br />
He surrendered when surrounded by police and remains in custody.GLBT and Friendshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04285724814260963428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6050907457392783290.post-83810767864306225582011-08-03T01:10:00.002-04:002011-08-03T01:10:54.752-04:00Chris Matthews Plays Hardball with Dr. Anthony Fauci at amfAR Capitol Hill conferenceChris Matthews, the longtime host of MSNBC's Hardball with Chris Matthews, interviews Anthony Fauci, MD, director of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases at the National Institutes of Health, at amfAR's July 2011 Capitol Hill conference, "Making AIDS History: Ending the Epidemic."<br />
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